I didn't come to this work through AI. I came through being on the receiving end of something else entirely — weekly conversations with Paul about things I couldn't untangle alone. Not therapy, not advice. Something harder to name. Over time, I started bringing the same material to AI, and the difference was immediate. AI would hear my words but miss what my words were saying. Paul never missed it. That wasn't an accident. Paul's entire orientation — built over 35 years into a framework called Integrative Relational Health (IRH) — was designed to catch exactly what AI skips.
So together we asked a simple question: what if AI could be built from the principles that make IRH work? Paul sat with AI the way he sits with people — hundreds of conversations, real material, real stakes. Every time the AI collapsed into delivery mode, he caught it, named it, corrected it. Those corrections accumulated into a map of how AI fails at depth, and a set of principles that produce a fundamentally different quality of exchange.
Depth has always lived in the space between people. We're building the first AI that can hold it too.